• Family: how to work out when to forgive and when to let something go

    Some of us are lucky enough to have supportive, loving families that help us, either to come home to, or to feel we’ve come from...

  • Stop working and take a trip: The Best Way to Fight Stress

    Even planning a vacation, making packing and shopping lists helps keep your mind off the problems at work...

  • Duty & obligation: why we struggle and what to do about it

    I don’t know a single person who doesn’t do certain things because they feel they should. And these “shoulds” are usually related to feelings about...

  • Losing weight – a psychological approach

    Looking at the “whys” of weight problems are just as important as the “hows” in my book...

  • How to lose weight sensibly – Part 1

    For some people, overeating becomes a normal response to stress, and they find themselves putting on weight, often adding to their feelings of unhappiness...

  • Monday blues or just plain SAD?

    Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) – also known as “winter depression” – affects around two million people in the UK...

  • Emotional Energy!

    How is it that one day you can feel full of beans come bedtime - and another you're dragging yourself to the dinner table in a fit of exhaustion?

  • A is for Anger

    Anger gets a bad press... no one seems to have a good word to say about it...

  • F is for Fear

    What are you afraid of? The death of a loved one? Losing your job? Walking home in the dark? Spiders?

  • Happiness – what’s it all about?

    Being happy is a positive, optimistic and wonderful feeling but sometime between childhood and adulthood many of us lose sight of what happiness feels like...

  • Overcoming addiction. Seven steps to taking back control

    If you completed the questionnaire in the last blog and feel ready and willing to take some concrete action towards overcoming your addiction, read on...

  • Understanding and Acting on Addiction

    This is the first in a two part series of blogs looking at addiction – what it is, why it happens, and what we can do about it...

  • 2 out of 10: When to get help for Depression

  • How to cope with a difficult colleague

    If you feel unhappy or discontented at work, it may not be the work itself that’s the problem, but the people...

  • How to survive -and even enjoy- winter

    How do you feel about winter? Do you look forward to wrapping up warm for bracing walks and then hunkering down...

  • 7 stress-free ways to find a new job

    There’s a lot of talk in the media about how difficult it is to find work, and it can take some courage to challenge the pervasive cultural attitude that you’re lucky to have any job...

  • Beating your inner fake: Imposter Syndrome & what to do about it

    Social media has provided us with many tools, one of which is the ability to present the persona of our choosing to the outside world...

  • How to make the most of a bad job

    Work-related stress is one of the most common reasons people come to me for help, which is why I’m devoting a series of blogs to the issue...

  • Maternity Stress & Returning to Work

    A study conducted just this month on parenting website NetMums found that nearly three quarters of women feared for their jobs when they took maternity leave...

  • Who would you rather have as your boss? The Apprentice

    It’s the final of The Apprentice tonight, where Sir Alan Sugar will choose a business partner from two finalists...

  • Plane Anxious!

    There are many reasons people may be afraid of flying – for some, it’s about loss of control...